Do 'YOU' have a hero complex?
Yes, ofcourse we need more heroes in this world..but just never forget to ask yourself this..is what you are fighting for, worth all the trouble that will hunt you down..? Honestly, I would still play the hero if I had a do over, it's just my personality...I'll always be cheering for the underdog...BUT I would be wiser in choosing my battles.
My advice to my fellow Justice Leaguers and Avengers is:
1. choose your battles wisely,
2.be objective as you can, there's always a story and then there's the truth,
3.keep your anger or rage under control, you will need to think clearly and strategise if need be to save the day.
4. make your intentions known to all, there should be no room for misunderstanding over your reasons for your heroic efforts..so avoid taking on any matter that maybe a conflict of interest, as you may be accused for for having selfish motives.
5.never be the hero to a family member in feud with another family member as this can quickly turn into a domestic disaster.Opt for referee instead..but still proceed with caution..I'm sure you have seen many a soccer match where the referee had to run from angry players.
6. this being the most important point of all..sometimes you just need to listen and do nothing at all..it's human nature to complain and sometimes people just want to vent or need an ear. Yes its hard, but practice makes perfect!
Never dull your shine for anyone! Quoting Tyra Banks, always let your personality forge ahead and don't turn nasty no matter how dire the circumstances. You are who you are because of the choices you make and not because of your circumstances;)